HOSPITALITY IN MONGOLIA

P1040043Mongolia has a long standing tradition of hospitality; food and lodging is offered to anyone, free of charge. Nomadic cultures necessitate it for survival. Some gift, when possible, might be offered in exchange.

P1040041Khovsgol Lake is a popular vacation destination (by Mongolian standards) in the north. I found a ride to one of its shores dotted with tourist camps, which I had hoped to avoid.

Walking further up the coast, accommodations became rare so I was relieved and delighted to meet a couple who sold fish and offered me a private “guest ger”. They provided me with wood for the stove, a thermos of hot water to make tea, a jerrycan of water for washing, sheets and blankets; all I would need for a comfortable stay. They asked for 10,000 tugrik (about$6/night). A delicious lunch of fish, potatoes, onions and salad was prepared for a small additional fee. It was a quiet and beautiful location. Our communication was limited to the three or four common words we shared but their kindness was evident.

Taking a walk some distance from my ger, I noticed a few yaks, two horses and as I neared, an older man cradling a baby.  An older woman soon joined him.  I continued my approach, smiled, greeted them with a hello and was quickly ushered in to sit on the hard seat/bed in their sparsely furnished ger. Without hesitation the woman offered me tea, a large slab of fresh baked bread and two bowls. One contained delectable, mild, yak butter and the other was soon filled with freshly made yogurt. I savored each sip and bite and had to gently refuse her additional helpings. There was an ease between us and somehow we made our inquiries understood.

We lingered awhile longer. Soon after, with a thank you, I headed back to my ger returning a short time later with some small gifts: a writing pad, pen and soap. She received them with delight. I said goodbye and while I was walking away she called, hurried towards me and placed two smoked fish (a regional delicacy) in a bag for me to take on my way.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Welcome to the tales of a woman solo traveler and thoughts to make today the start of something new. I hope you find information and inspiration in the text and images and join me in my quest for growth, wonderment and self-improvement.

CUTTING COSTS

P1030222Travel is often thought of as a luxury. Besides time, it requires money. However, there are certain choices we can make to achieve our goal more readily.

If you have not already done so, consider getting a credit card that offers frequent flyer miles. It can be a long term project, but it will pay off. I have flown using Am Ex Delta skymiles several times. But, I travel with Capitol One and Capitol One 360 ; neither incur foreign transaction fees.

Stay near to home, travel by car or choose a destination that is relatively inexpensive once you get there. Fortunately there are numerous websites proposing special airfares; just make sure they are reputable.

Countries with ample local transportation can reduce your need for expensive taxis and tours.

Compromise some comforts for simpler accommodations: consider camping, staying in hostels or becoming a member of Couchsurfing. There are agencies like Airbnb with a huge range of budget options. Look into swapping your home with another elsewhere, or house-sitting. You might sublet your place while away.

Places off season are usually less expensive and willing to negotiate their rates.

Budget travel  http://www.budgettravel.com/ is one of many sites with travel tips.  I just gave it a look and saw many deals and ideas.

Eat with the locals. Many countries have fantastic cuisine at a fraction of the price you will pay in tourist restaurants. But like everything else, be selective, you want the experience to be memorable for the right reasons. Picnics are inexpensive and fun.

Overall, do not let the cost of travel deter you. With the web at your fingertips, a little imagination, and some flexibility you can undoubtedly organize a voyage within your means.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Welcome to the tales of a woman solo traveler and thoughts to make today the start of something new. I hope you find information and inspiration in the text and images and join me in my quest for growth, wonderment and self-improvement.
 

STILL STROLLING

I’ll be back on Monday and would be delighted, in the meantime, if you would look through my previous posts. Perhaps you missed a few or will reread one with a new perspective.

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Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Welcome to the tales of a woman solo traveler and thoughts to make today the start of something new. I hope you find information and inspiration in the text and images and join me in my quest for growth, wonderment and self-improvement.

OUT FOR A STROLL

I’ll be back on Monday and would be delighted, in the meantime, if you would look through my previous posts. Perhaps you missed a few or will reread one with a new perspective.

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Thank you for taking the time to read my post! Welcome to the tales of a woman solo traveler and thoughts to make today the start of something new. I hope you find information and inspiration in the text and images and join me in my quest for growth, wonderment and self-improvement.

A CUP HALF EMPTY, A CUP HALF FULL

Downtown Medellin, Colombia is where you will find the Botero Plaza with those wonderful eponymous, enormous statues, a major tourist attraction during the day. But in the evening the streets return to the locals.

My hostel, however, was only two blocks away so I took this opportunity to walk around. I was the only foreigner in sight.
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The atmosphere was lively.  Just beyond the plaza there were street vendors hawking fruits, vegetables, clothing, toys, and household goods  along  a pedestrian mall with shops on each side. The residents were bargaining and strolling: families, couples, teens.

I was thirsty and bought a papaya drink. It was quite large, too large,  and with the cup -half empty- I threw it in a trash can.

Within seconds, the drink was snatched up by a thin young man who clearly lived on the streets. The color of his clothing was indistinguishable from the color of his skin.  Dirt was so deeply embedded into both.

He quickly took a sip from this cup -half full- said one word, “papaya”, gave me the biggest smile and, cup in hand, continued on his way.

 

DEAR READER

P1020012Dear Reader,

It is hard to believe that a month has already passed since the inception of this blog.

Thank you for your readership, wonderful feedback and support!!

It has been a pleasure to share my thoughts and experiences with you and I hope you have found information and inspiration in the text and images.

Developing this blog has been an adventure in itself and quite a learning curve. As per your request, I finally found the way to enroll subscribers. I would be delighted if you would sign up.

There are other adjustments I look forward to making in the days ahead. Certain devices may not display the blog in the same way.

Perhaps you have not noticed tabs which offer some additional information:Why this blog?, Photographs, How I Began, etc.

There is a list of all the previous posts by title and date.

You can search certain posts by category: Practical Advice, Thoughts on Oneself, Snapshots, etc.

Days can be busy but please take a moment, when you can, to visit.

Here’s to new discoveries near and far.

CURIOSITY

P1020198I wonder about curiosity.

Is it something we are born with? Is it something we can acquire?

I have memories of being very young and going to the beach with my family. We lived walking distance to Coney Island in Brooklyn and went there often. We must have returned to roughly the same location because I recall seeing, each time, a white building further on down the beach. It piqued my curiosity. What was it like down there?

Years later, the building still stands. and I have walked down to it many times. It is a souvenir of a yearning, a curiosity, to know what lies beyond.

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The unknown continues to entice me. And the unknown is everywhere.

 

SNAPSHOT#2

Sometimes a moment lingers and the memory it produces is like a snapshot.

P1040327The B train runs from Brighton Beach to Bedford Park in the Bronx. An apt name for sure.

It is an afternoon of the holiday season and many families are en route to see the celebrated tree at Rockefeller Center. Two women, with six kids in tow, enter the subway car. The oldest is around seven years of age and all are rambunctious. Their exuberant screaming, shouting, laughing, and running about continues despite the mothers’ attempt to quiet them. It is a distracting, cacophonous yet amusing alternative to whac-a-mole.

A little distance away there is a well dressed older woman and her granddaughter of roughly seven too. They are engaged in quiet conversation and by the glances over and shakes of the head, it is clear that the grandmother is displeased with the decorum, or lack thereof, on display. She appears confident that her sentiments are shared by the young girl, who is sitting upright, speaking softly and in every way an emblem of pride for her grandmother. But by the look in the young girl’s eyes one only sees envy and awe at the boundless and unrestrained fun before her.

 

GETTING AWAY

Getting away is not always possible. Even a few free hours each day might be more than you can manage.

There is still a way to turn the mundane into something interesting.

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Imagine that you are a tourist in your own town. Try carrying around a camera and using it. Tourists see things; they are looking. They are finding unique angles, light, shadows, buildings, people.  Nurture a critical eye and appreciate what is near to home. Experience familiar places in a fresh way.

Our environment offers us plenty to appreciate and it is always evolving.

 

SHAKE IT UP TOO

P1040658Maybe you can find the time to shake it up too!

Try something different. Try something new.

These dancers from the West Indies Parade last weekend found the time to.

I’ll be back on Monday and would be delighted, in the meantime, if you would look through my previous posts. Perhaps you missed a few or will reread one with a new perspective.